A Zigzag in My Path: Give Up or Keep Moving Forward?

A Zigzag in My Path: Give Up or Keep Moving Forward?

taking medicineSometimes a zigzag in your path gives you the opportunity to take a big spoonful of your own advice.

The advice (medicine) I recommend on a frequent basis is: “When life zigs and zags, keep moving forward.” Those words are

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19 Responses to A Zigzag in My Path: Give Up or Keep Moving Forward?

  • So glad you defeated the evil one! Glad you are better. Prayers and much love.

  • Amen. God is Great! Thankful for your faithfulness to each other!

  • You were hit with a “whammy” on Thanksgiving Day and for days that followed. I’m thankful Dr. Redcross found the issue and did the surgery! I knew, you, if anyone would get through this trial with flying colors! Our faith assures us of victory over all the trials that come our way. That is why studying the Bible daily and letting those words become who we are is so important. We are winners over the powerful darts and deceit the Devil uses.

    • Thank you for always believing in me, encouraging me, and praying for me. It means SO MUCH. His Word does become who we are! The enemy can shoot those flaming arrows at us, but I have seen and I KNOW how powerful God’s words are in defeating him.

  • Melony, what a testimony! Thanks for the reminder to stay in His word daily. I am so glad you are better.

  • Before 2019 my answer to every zigzag in life was to not fight at all. It’s a very long story (and my book will talk about all the why’s) but to make it short and sweet, i no longer had the energy, drive or desire to keep fighting. By the end of 2019 I was unchained from a burden I carried my entire life and for the first time truly felt free to fight in life. To fight for what I wanted, needed, desired and God opened doors, so many doors in 2020. So now I move forward when the zigzags in life happen. I am grateful you too kept moving forward.

    • I know you “get it,” girl! Looking forward to reading your journey of encountering zigzags and how you fought to overcome!

  • Who would have ever guessed we would be in the ER on Thanksgiving morning baby? Epically with a DR name DR Redcross!!! God had you all the way thru this Zig Zag! Love you!!

  • What a beautifully written story of your zig-zag! Your faith is so profoundly presented. Mel, we are all very thankful that victory was yours.

    • Thank you, Kathy! I truly believe my faith was tested. And with God fighting with me and for me, the enemy was defeated!!!

  • My journey has been one of giving up as well as overcoming. I’m SO thankful for you, Melony Brown! I hate that you had to go through this battle but I love that you WON!

    • Oh sweet friend, you are a fighter. I know you have wanted to give up and may have for “a while,” but the fighter deep inside of you can’t stay down. You’ve had to fight to overcome many times, and I admire that about you in A BIG WAY! I love you, dear friend!!!

  • Love that you shared this Mel. I’m so glad God carried you through that Valley. You are a powerful voice of encouragement!

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Collected My Tears

Collected My Tears

tearsTears collected in a bottle. An unusual idea, but David used this phrase in Psalm 56:8 to describe how God keeps a record of human pain and suffering. He cares for us when we are hurting. 

Rhonda* clung to

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  • WOW! What a beautiful story of how God heals the broken hearted. Much needed in this day and time to not give up on life or family. Thank you for sharing.

  • It was a hard journey to get to the point of being capable of sharing this. I am happy it impacted you!

  • We are currently going through a very rough season with our adult son. We brought him home to live with us over a year ago as he was suicidal and in the throes of addiction. Rhonda, your article encourages me to keep pressing in to HIM, keep praying, keep trusting that He is working even when we can’t see what He is doing.

    • Cheryl, I think we forget that God’s hand IS on the wheel. Let Him carry you and this burden. Take it minute by minute. You have to break it down like that some days. Keep your hands up to the sky in praise and prayer. For when our hands are down, we are drifting away from Him.

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A Fragile Heart Carries the Strongest Soul

A Fragile Heart Carries the Strongest Soul

Audrey’s* fragile heart wasn’t just the one beating in her chest. Her spiritual heart knew about God but undergoing a heart transplant opened the door for her to know Him.

Joyful celebrations are occurring today, one year after her

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  • Audrey- you have a powerful Overcomer story! Hold your “O” high and keep sharing with others!!

  • Happy One year ❤️ anniversary!!!

  • Her story is beautiful and she is one of the strongest ladies I know! I’m blessed to know her and call her a friend! I know God has lots of plans for her! ??❤️ We love you Audrey and Happy ONE Year Heart Anniversary!!

    • Thank you so, so much sweet girl! I appreciate you, your prayers, and your continued support through the ups and downs more than I could ever explain! We love y’all!!!

  • I am a nurse practitioner so I know what this entails. But its even more vivid to me now after my mother had open heart surgery to repair a valve in March. She had a very serious complication and had to be taken back to the OR two hours after the repair. It was a very terrifying day. I also have a patient who is 4 years out from his transplant. Its so much more involved than most people realize!! Its not just new heart…bye…your are fixed. It is still a life time of dealing w ‘us’ medical people, test, procedures and pills. Going through that w a baby–WOW. You look amazing and healthy. VIBRANT. Congratulations on your new heart-the physical and the spiritual. Miracles miracles miracles!!!

    • Oh my goodness, I will keep your mother in my prayers!! Thank you so much for your kind words and your understanding. It is definitely a life long battle, it is a treatment, not a solution. However, I am so extremely thankful for the strength the Lord gave me to continue to fight, and become the healthiest version of myself that I can be for my family! Thank you so, so much!!

  • Sweet Audrey Our Great God can create a STRONG HEART AND LIVE IN IT TOO!! HE IS ABLE TO DO ALL IMPOSSIBLE THINGS!!!!HE WILL MAKE YOU STRONGER AND MAKE YOU FLY HIGHER
    “BY HIS GRACE “ . HE WILL COVER YOU LIKE A MOTHER HEN COVERS HER YOUNG CHICKS WITH ALL THE PROVISIONS AND PROTECTION!! Our Great God bless you abundantly !!

  • Audrey,
    God has done such a marvelous work through you! We are so thankful that He has allowed you to live through this incredible journey, to continue to raise sweet little Peyton, and to be a wife to the love of your life, Matt. How blessed we are to watch you grow physically and spiritually! Thank you for sharing your amazing story and for giving God all the glory and honor for it.
    I love you!
    LeAnn

    • Thank you so much! I am so thankful to have y’all in my life. I am blessed to call y’all family, and to have had your support through all life’s blessings and hardships. We love y’all!

  • Audrey, I am most happy for you accepting Christ and putting his will in place. You look amazing.
    So blessed to have a heart to replace yours. Thankful that you had family all around you to support you physically and emotionally. May God continue to give you a healthy and happy life.

    • He has given me a new life, and for that I am so thankful. There isn’t anything I can’t do, with Him! Thank you for your kind words and encouragement, I really appreciate it!

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Tested My Tenacity

Tested My Tenacity

tenacity“My tenacity was definitely tested over the last four years. I believe everyone has a story. My story is summed up in that I’m not a quitter. I MADE IT!” Nancy* shared.

* Her real name is used with permission.

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  • Great story! Nancy is such a special person and has overcome so much with grace and class. So glad that both of you are my friends❤️

  • Great story, Nancy! As a brain surgery survivor myself, I understand. I too went through physical, occupational, and speech therapy. But God was with me every step of the way. May God continue to bless you and use your story to encourage others!

  • Nancy is one of the kindest people I’ve ever known. She inspires others not just by her story but by her faith and generous encouragement of others in their efforts. She deserves all the best.

    • Denise!
      You match and surpass any kindness I may show! Things have been rough— but I anticipate that everything will be alright very soon.
      Your friend, Nancy

  • Nancy is an amazing person. She remains positive always in the face of adversity. I’m proud of all of her hard work, and also of her son, Ryan. Wonderful son with an awesome mom.

    • Leslie,
      You inspire me everyday! You look everything in the eye each day and face whatever it brings!
      Thank you for being my friend! Nancy

  • Great job “keep on keeping on”with the Lord’s strength! Crazy how a car accident helped find the tumor. May God continue to give you strength, comfort and healing on this journey!

    • Jodi,
      Thanks for the encouragement!
      I count on the Lord. and seek Him daily.
      If you don’t mind.. please pray for me this coming Thursday.
      Thanks, Nancy

  • Nancy, your story is so encouraging! I admire you for your tenacity, perseverance, and bravery. May God continue to bless you and you share your story.

    • Edwina,
      Life certainly has it’s challenges, doesn’t it. God has been so good to me– John 3:16 is one of the only Bible verses I can remember, despite a life filled with Bible study. Fortunately…it’s the one verse I need to know.
      Thank you, Nancy

  • Nancy, you have always been such a blessing to all who come in contact with you. I still remember when you were recovering. You would go for daily walks in the neighborhood with that contagious smile. You are a rare flower in our Father’s garden. Melony and Nancy – I feel blessed to know both of you wonderful ladies Proverbs 31:25

    • Michelle,
      I got my Bible out and read the verse, and found such a sweet verse!
      There is a place for ministry in our old neighborhood……I hope to walk with Amminy soon . Her smile is always a witness to all. Her comments are next on my page and she introduced me to Melony.

      Each of us has a story to tell and God has a way of shaking us up!
      Thank you, Nancy

  • Hey Nancy My Friend
    It was Our Great God’s Grace and blessings only and only had put you through all the Tenacity you had “showed up “Our Great God provides “Extraordinary energy “ to Run that “extra Mile “
    Your Tenacity story inspires us Look up to Him as a Source of EVERY BLESSINGS “
    GO AHEAD MY FRIEND!!!
    Our Great God bless you abundantly with His Precious Presence,Provision and Protection Every walk every step you take in the Journey of TENACITY!!!!
    “Praise the Lord, my soul; all my inmost being, praise his holy name. Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all his benefits—”
    ‭‭

    • Amminy,
      You have been such a constant blessing to me. I remember when you gave me a copy of Psalm 91. I keep it with my Bible, my devotional, and I keep reading it, Under His wings we will find shelter.
      By His Grace, nothing is impossible. Thank you for the blessing!
      Your friend, Nancy

  • Nancy,
    It is clear God gave you His grace to walk through so many trials. I know you have overcoming strength! Blessings,

  • Nancy, I have known you since college, when we were both 17! And you were tenacious even then. Even then, you witnessed to me about your faith and love of Jesus. In fact, you were the first person I knew who read daily devotionals and you started sharing your Guideposts with me each night. I know I was a “hard nut to crack” but your TENACITY served us both well. I remember inviting you, Ben and Mom to a celebratory hamburger feast where I shared that I had finally received Christ into my heart (We were 19 by then.)
    These days, we are separated by distance and I can’t get to see you as often as I like. I remember crying after one of our phone calls when I realized how hard it was for you to express yourself – yet, you bravely did! Now, our conversations go much more smoothly which shows how much you have progressed. And, after reading this story, Ryan is my hero. What a kind, compassionate man you have raised. I know he made a difference in your recovery. I am so grateful that you and Mom are settled in a place with such beautiful flowers and surrounded by people who share your faith. The Lord truly has provided.

    • Mary,
      You were a tough nut to crack! When you got to college you had food from all over the world, a set of encyclopedias, and a lot of questions about faith… in particular, my faith! So glad you asked! I remember asking you to find something that was not true in my devotionals and the Bible…. You had many, many questions.
      I am truly blessed……by God, my family, and my friends. Everything I value.
      Thank you for being my friend!
      Nancy

  • Nancy—you’re strength and true spirit show through you now and ever since I have known you. Because of your witness to Mary, the seed was planted for me and I later accepted Christ. Our families have blossomed with His Truth—our parents, our spouses and our children. Thank you!
    God Smiles when He sees your Legacy. Hugs sweet friend
    Susan Parks

    • Susan,

      Thank you for sharing, I did not know that I had been such a blessing to your family.
      Last Fall, when I was riding Lyft back and forth to work, I tried to minister to the Lyft drivers, but was surprised to find that all but 2 of my drivers were already Christians. I am looking for ways to serve, while volunteering only. Although I was good at what I did before, I no longer have the strength for that level of activity.

      Also, please pray for me this coming Thursday.

      I feel compelled to witness these days, there is an urgency for me to share the Good News now more than ever. It will be a challenge–because I can remember little of my Bible and have to refer to it constantly.

      One of the disciples kept asking for his issue to be resolved, we never find out what the issue was— but, important to know that there was an issue and that it was not named means it could be anything, anything at all! I pray for my issue with memory is solved, I pray because I have issues solving math situations, I have to pray because without my notes, I am lost, I pray because I have little physical strength at this time, and maybe I will always will have these issues. But, what I do know is that our God is mighty and He is our one and only God!

      Keep the faith Susan, your friend, Nancy

  • Nancy! I know this is hard to believe but I am just now opening your email, I didn’t want to open it until I had time to read what you were sharing, OMGOSH! Your story is amazing and so are you! Even when we visited when your speech had not come back you were beautiful inside and out. You had the smile and expression of Jesus. Loving, gentle and confident of who you were and were you were going, God gave you a tenaciousness to handle every trial you encountered along with beautiful grace and character.
    God is good, all the time and your ministry to others through your trials has pierced the hearts of many! Take care and much love to you, today and always. <

  • Nancy you have a strong desire to survive and thank God for giving you another chance to share your love of him with others.

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Plan B Resilience

Plan B Resilience

“God teaches us resilience when our plans fall apart,” Jodi believes. “Overcoming is relinquishing the plans you have and embracing the new plan God has for your life.”

* Her real name is used with permission.

A Family in Need

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  • What a witness to the Awesome power of our God and answered prayers. Psalm 121:1-2 I will lift my eyes to the hills – From where shall my help come? My help comes from the Lord, Who made heaven and earth.

  • Thank you Doris! Yes there are many answered prayers! I’m thankful for the prayer warriors we have had!

  • I love seeing how God has given Peter and Jodi His strength to carry on in spite of all the difficulties that have come their way! It is amazing to see God’s grace and mercy at work in their daily lives! I’m thankful for their example. It shows me that life will not always be easy, but our God is still good and He is faithful, and we can trust Him! Thank you for not giving up Jodi and Peter! I love and appreciate you both. So thankful you are a part of my life!

  • Thank you Jane! So grateful you are a part of our lives! Life is hard, but our God is faithful!!!

  • Jodi has lived a remarkable life! Disappointments and setbacks can often derail us, but I love how Jodi continued to press on, even when she was angry at God (and I love her willingness to include those feelings as part of her journey.) I had the privilege of praying for Jodi one time before a meeting began. I felt the pain and agony of her mother’s heart, which compelled me to continue praying for Jodi and her family. As we learn to trust that God is always for us, we can lean in during the most difficult of times. We don’t always get the storybook ending answer to our prayers, but I’m thankful that I can see God’s faithfulness and evidence of so many answered prayers through Peter and Jodi’s determination to love their kids unconditionally – the way God loves each of us!

  • Thank you sweet friend Lori! Its amazing how God puts people in your path at the right time when you need prayer and encouragement! Thank you for being that person and for your kind encouraging words!

  • Incredible story of resilience under fire! This story gives those with struggles so much hope. Thank you, Jodi for sharing so open and honestly. You are being used by the Lord for such a time as this to help others run the race with endurance when they feel that “life” has pushed them out of the running lanes. (Insert BIG applause here.)

  • From the days at The River until now, you and Peter have been a blessing and a testimony to Bob & me. May God bless you in unexpected ways in 2020.

  • Thank you Tammy! My prayer is that it will bring hope and encouragement to others struggling.. Hebrews 12:1 and 2 is one of my life verses!

  • Peter & Jodi: Greetings from hot and wheat harvesty central Kansas (Hillsboro). You may recall that I moved here in 2010. I received your family update via the steadfast and good-hearted Stephen Stout. This has obviously not been an easy road for you all beginning with a risky and brave start, but praise the Lord! for your good and ongoing faithfulness and His!, And to Peter, maybe it is OK for us to get along with little or no MLB this year (but I do miss it)..

  • Thank you Bob and Trisha for your encouragement to us and prayers and wisdom as Peter has begun his aggressive Lyme Treatment

  • Thanks for the encouragement David, great to reconnect. Lots to catch up on since we saw you last! We are so grateful for the Lord’s faithfulness to us that continues to get us through challenging times!

  • This was so neat to read! I have so many good memories growing up with Tina and Rich, playing at your house and the Thorson’s. Tina was one of my best friends when we were young, being in the same class at school and church and always riding our bikes up and down the alley between our houses. You guys were an inspiration to me when I was going through adopting my 4 kids. You are an amazing example! God is so good!

  • I’m so glad you got to read it Nina ! I’m so thankful we have inspired you and so proud of you adopting 4 kids!! Wow, God is amazing!

  • What a beautiful story of unconditional love!! Thank you Jodi and Peter for your willingness to share your wisdom gained!

  • You are so Welcome Faye. I pray our struggles will encourage others who want to give up to “hold on to the Anchor” who’s Rock we can trust and will carry us through any storm! Hebrews 6:19

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Worth the Struggle and the Work

Worth the Struggle and the Work

worth the struggle“Overcoming is worth the struggle and the work,” says sixteen-year-old Kennedy*. Those bold words are spoken by a young woman who fought a health challenge, that in turn, impacted her learning.

* Her real name is used with permission.

It

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  • Kennedy! Your perseverance and determination are inspiring! You already “shine” and I’m certain you are just going to keep getting brighter and brighter!!!!! Blessings!

  • You are a wonderful example of what you can accomplish with hard work and a positive attitude. Your influence with your peers and others is great!

  • Kennedy and her whole family are a testament to the power of prayer. Thanks, Kennedy, for showing the rest of us the Way!

    • Julie,
      Thank you for your kind words. You are precious to read Kennedy’s story. Thank you for always being such a sweet friend.

  • Kennedy,
    If I didn’t already know what you have been through, I sure wouldn’t know by seeing you. You are such an incredible young lady who has always done everything to the best of your ability and loved everyone you are around.
    Love you,
    Lori Rockwell

  • Love this family with all my heart and so thankful to have read Kennedy’s journey. Such an encouraging and powerful story to share of her trial, struggle and empowerment in it. Thank You Lord Jesus for Kennedy and Your wonderful plan and purpose for her. Kennedy, you are a wonderful inspiration to me and to others and will shine to many in the future.

    • Betty,
      You are a gift to our family. Thank you for your many prayers and can’t wait for the day where you can meet Kennedy.

  • Kennedy, you are an inspiration! We are so proud of you and can’t wait to see what God has in store for your future!

  • Kennedy, Thank you for your inspiring testimony! Your future is bright!

  • Kennedy is an inspiration and a blessing to all around her. She is one of the hardest working young ladies I know who has overcome so much. I am so glad our paths crossed at GRACEPOINT. I love that photo with your pug 🙂

    • Mrs. Wing,

      Thank you for commenting. I owe you and your leadership at Gracepoint so much. Thank you for your nice comments.

  • Kennedy, You are putting your faith into action…a true inspiration to us all! I feel blessed to have been your teacher at GRACEPOINT because you showed how hard work and perseverance truly pay off. I have enjoyed watching you learn and grow. Your future is bright!

    • Thank you Mrs. Benton. I can read because of you. Thank you for everything!!!!

  • What a beautiful and intelligent young lady. Your determination has paid off and your future sounds very bright. God will lead you on a magnificent journey! Love and prayers for you sweet girl! ??

  • Kennedy’s story,, related to me by her grandmother at a church retreat about 7 years ago, and updated through the years, inspired me and helped me though my treatment for a blood cancer that is now in remission. I thank God for Kennedy’s story!

  • Thank you so much Melony for taking the time to get to know my Kennedy and listen to her tell her story. She is such a blessing and such a fighter. Her strong will got her through her treatments and helps her everyday as she struggles through school. You did such a beautiful job relaying her testimony through your words. Kennedy, I thank God every single day for you. You are an amazingly kind young woman that is so creative and just fun to be around. God blessed me by allowing me to be your mom. I love you and am so proud of you.

  • What a wonderful gift this website gave to such a precious young lady. Just more proof that God uses all things, good and bad, to work for our good. Thank you for sharing this one!!!

  • Betty,
    You are a gift to our family. Thank you for your many prayers and can’t wait for the day where you can meet Kennedy.

  • What an inspiration you are to me and others. Continue to reach your attainable goals.

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Suffer Strong

Suffer Strong

suffer strongIn Suffer Strong, Katherine Wolf writes, “Instead of focusing on what we inevitably lose in this life, we can choose to suffer strong, growing in the kind of wisdom and love that heals us from the inside out.”

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  • Love this! I’ll have to get the book. Thank you for sharing this overcomer’s story!

    • It is an incredible book! So much of the wisdom and lessons learned she and Jay shared would be helpful and inspiring to those in your ministry!

    • This is what I love about God… He allows us to suffer through life to finish strong. Mrs. Katherine, your story/life makes me think about how God is the potter and you are the clay that He has refined into a beautiful creation.

      • Oh, Stephanie! Your words truly capture the message of the book and Jay and Katherine’s lives!

  • What an inspiration Katherine is to us all! God has used her in a mighty way through her trial to glorify Him. I would love to meet her one day!

    • Katherine IS definitely an inspiration! She lives here in Atlanta and goes to Passion City Church like we do. Fingers crossed she can join us at one of the Overcomer Celebrations!

  • Love the beauty of transformation as it shifted the focus to helping others heal and recover! I haven’t read the books, but I just ordered them. I’m excited to learn from Jay and Katherine. Great review

    • Some people fight the transformation in their lives as they see it as painful and ugly, but the butterfly only gets its wings to fly after a season of loneliness and isolation.

      Katherine and Jay share so much wisdom about how transformation can be and IS beautiful!

  • What a beautiful story of strength and inspiration. We all face some kind of life altering event or even multiple events in our lifetime. I pray I can always react in the same manner, with courage and wisdom.

    • Yes! Life-altering events, interestingly, make or break people. Katherine’s stroke was definitely life-altering, but it did not break her. Looking at their lives now, it is abundantly clear those life-altering events made her.

  • Love the idea of refining and redefining!! Looks like I’ll be adding a new book to my reading list!

  • Fascinating and inspiring! Would love to read the book!

  • Loss is real, it’s angry, hurtful and ugly. Then there is the peace that passes all understanding when we can take our loss and turn it into growth both spiritually and emotionally. Thanks for a great article. It allowed me to be reflective.

    • I know God is lavishing you in the peace that passes understanding as you grieve Ian’s passing. Praying for you, precious friend!

  • We can never imagine the fullness God has planned for our lives. It is overwhelming the amazing trust He has in us to take worldly “lemons” and use them to bear the rich Fruit of His Spirit in and through us.
    Thank you for introducing me to this beautiful story of victory in Jesus name!

    • Isn’t it just beautiful to look back and see how God used the things meant to harm us for our good?

  • Thank you for this interview. It is a reminder to us in our circumstances that we have a choice in our next steps. I found your life story convicting and inspiring.

    • We do have a choice in how we respond to our struggles: live in defeat or fight to overcome!

  • What a challenge this couple has met together. Yet they chose to flourish. Life is what you choose to make it and they prove that.

    • Katherine and Jay are definitely flourishing in spite of all the struggles they’ve faced. A true testament to God’s Presence in their lives!

  • Thank you for demonstrating with such grace what it looks like to navigate uncharted territory. Your story is inspiring and so relevant to our current crisis. We are all in the process of learning new normals. Because of your faithfulness to live a life pleasing to God, your story offers hope. Thank you.

    • Every time I sat down to work on the book review, I got goose bumps thinking about how timely this very important message is! As much as I’ve been uncomfortable in the upheaval in our lives, I don’t want to go back to my old normal. I’m with you, Diane, it’s time to learn some new normals!

  • What wonderful timing to learn about this book. With all that is going on it IS time to rethink our dreams and redefine our lives. I can’t wait to actually read the book. This will be an excellent graduation present too. Many childhood dreams of traditions have been crushed. And for everyone that has lost anything from this pandemic, this book could have such a positive impact.

    • I couldn’t agree more, Nancy! I picked the day I would publish the book review MONTHS AGO. When I was putting the finishing touches on it and thought about the message of the book, I knew it was no coincidence it was scheduled to be published DURING the Coronavirus. GOD just works that way. HE gets ALL the praise!

      • katherine’s story in Suffer Strong is so inspiring and timely for us all. Truly the grace of God has been sufficient for her and Jay infusing them with unshakeable faith and hope. Thanks for sharing this at this time Melony! A much needed message. Great article!

        • Several people who have commented have pointed out how needed this message is at this time, and I couldn’t agree more. That’s why I was eager to share my book review as soon as I finished reading it!

  • Wow! So inspiring and encouraging! We all go through trials and it’s not what we go through it’s how we go through it!! Such a powerful story!!! Amazing!

    • HOW we go through it! Yes, precious friend! This book is definitely inspiring and encouraging!

      • Thank you Melony for introducing Katherine’s story to us. During the last few weeks the Lord has been impressing on my heart that I need to better understand suffering. What? Yep…..As my sweet depression era Godly Grandmother used to say, “Honey- it rains on the righteous and the unrighteousness.”

        Perhaps the Lord is preparing me for a shift in my life. I do not know but I am sure He wants me to see suffering as part of the path to triumph. I am going to listen to Katherine’s podcast and look forward to her book!

        • You are brave to study suffering! But I do agree we need to understand it better as we all will likely experience it at some point in our lives. I love when you said, “I am sure He wants me to see suffering as part of the path to triumph.”

  • I follow Hope Heals on Instagram and it was so encouraging to read some of the quotes from the book. I need to order it! I especially loved, “Our tears of loss can plant seeds of the kind of hope that survives anything.” Amen!

    • Yes, you definitely need to order it! Can’t you just visualize our tears planting seeds of hope? Wouldn’t it be neat to have God’s perspective as he watches those seeds bloom?

  • Tram Nguyen
    It was fascinating to read the story and inspiring how strong Katherine and Jay have gone through. I was in tear as I read along. That was their rough journey and they’d never gave it up. This story would change people point of views in life especially what is happening right now. I would love to read more of this story.

    • Their never give up attitude is amazing! And yes, their message is so needed during these uncertain times.

  • I will definitely be getting this book! What an overcomer!

  • Truly inspiring story! What a journey Katherine and Jay are on. Hope is so important to us all. They have definitely found unfailing hope and they have learned to love and live from that place. I love that hope it’s their anchor, and her comment about hope… “Our tears of loss can plant seeds of the kind of hope that survives anything” They truly have allowed the wisdom of God to change their perception concerning life and the struggles they face(d). They’re such a power team! I love that they have learned how to dream “new” dreams. They both are overcomers indeed…in a big way!!! Their message of hope, refining and redefining is such a blessing to us all!

    • Preach it, girl! This book is a must read. The quotes I pulled are powerful, but there is SO MUCH MORE in the book!

  • A friend loaned me a copy of Hope Heals because I am a overcomer also. She told me that I should read it because it has some “awesome” quotes that made her think of some of the things I had said to her. Although; we have overcome different circumstances, I can feel her pain. I love her book! She is awesome and an amazing overcomer! Would love to know more about her.

    • Hope Heals is an excellent book, and I’m so glad you read it! But time has passed, and Katherine and Jay have learned so much in their journey of overcoming. I hope you’ll read Suffer Strong too as they share their lessons and the hard earned wisdom they’ve gained!

    • What a amazing story, I first found out about this when my neighbor and friend had a son that suffered from brain bleed, I came across her story on you tube looking up information and resources about this type of brain bleed. I was heartfelt, hopeful and definitely a story of overcoming. What a small world that I would see it again on Our overcomer blog. God is amazing and with times like these with covid-19 it is a reminder that with faith, love, determination we can overcome anything. Thank you for sharing this beautiful story and to bring hope, love and faith back to us. I hope we will to hear more is this especially during such a stressful and overwhelming time. God bless

      • Yes, the message of this book could not be more timely! Faith, love, and determination will definitely help all of us overcome!

  • This is such an encouraging story and I’d love to hear more! Adding to my to-read list! I love the perspective of God giving us an opportunity to thrive amidst the challenges.

    • I just shared a handful of the great quotes in the book. I underlined so many powerful thoughts and couldn’t share them all, so it’s definitely a must read!

  • I can’t wait to get my hands on Suffer Strong. Katherine and Jay’s story is truly inspiring and one that gives hope to others. They are abundantly generous in sharing their deep and personal journey so readers will gain insights and new perspectives in their own journeys. God is still in the business of transformation, this couple certainly brings Glory to His Name!

    • I LOVE your comment about God still being the business of transformation! AMEN and AMEN!

  • Wow. So encouraging. Thanks so much for sharing this, Melony!! Praise God for her testimony!

    • Do you remember when she and Jay spoke at Passion? She goes much deeper into how redefining their dreams and goals opened up even more blessings and opportunities!

  • This is so good! I will have to read the book!

    • It’s such a powerful book of the lessons she’s learned in her journey of overcoming.

  • Every time I hear Katherine’s story I am moved and encouraged all over again! Thank you for sharing! I can’t wait to read the book!

    • Her story is full of struggle, but it is encouraging to hear her speak. Her positivity shines as she shares everything she’s learned. And her words in this book encourage anyone who is struggling to see that struggle as an opportunity.

  • To “Suffer Strong” is an understatement to the inner turmoil that rides along with suffering, pain and healing Of circumstances beyond your control. Melony your capture of this couples overcoming odds against them, shows both your ministry and gift to share, as well as the couples true preservation to God’s promise and to themselves. I always say you are only a victim if you allow yourself to be a victim. It is how you face tomorrow that will make the difference.

    I look forward to reading this book, thank you for what you do! In the world of today, it takes great openness, courage and a strong community of friends and family to keep us centered and focused. iKeep them coming!

    • I LOVE “You are only a victim if you allow yourself to be a victim.” That’s excellent wisdom!

      Thank you for your continued support and emcouragement!

  • What an encouraging & hopeful story! Refining and redefining is something we all need in our lives. Blessings!

    • And what a perfect time during these uncertain times to reflect and redefine things in our lives.

  • Thank you so much for writing and sharing this review, Melony. I really like the message about redefining how to view life events. This past year I’ve certainly had my share of challenging ones and need to do exactly that. I look forward to more insights from Katherine and Jay!

    • You have seen some challenging events this last year! This book is power packed with wisdom about how Jay and Katherine redefined their struggles and found new opportunities!

  • So inspiring! Katherine and Jay, I love the approach you took to look at the good in your lives. God plants seeds for us to grow in ways we would not have known. Thank you so much for sharing. I needed to read this right now.

    • I agree: God carefully but sometimes painfully plants seeds in our lives. He must get so much joy watching as the seed becomes a small plant and then a larger plant. And because of that initial seed being planted, the new plant is spreading seeds which would have never come about but by that initial pain.

  • I love how God takes our dreams and explodes them into a life greater than we ever imagined!! He never wastes our suffering but transforms us into beautiful reflections of His heart. Thank you for your ministry!

    • I just love how beautifully you describe it: “He never wastes our suffering.” What the enemy meant for harm is just clay in God’s hands to create a masterpiece!

  • What an inspiration. To take a life situation and turn it into a beautiful journey. Can’t wait to read this book.

    • Yes, Candi! Katherine and Jay are so generous to share their life journey with us. By explaining how they suffer strong, we learn how to suffer strong when we face life’s tough challenges.

  • I cannot wait to read this book. What an amazing couple with such a powerful overcomer story. Thank you for bringing them to my attention.

    • Katherine and Jay are an amazing couple! Can’t wait to hear your thoughts after you read their book!

  • Thank you for such a beautiful commentary on Katherine’s story! Their story will be an inspiration for many.

    • Katherine and Jay’s story of facing a huge challenge with such determination and perseverance is definitely inspirational!

  • Your synopsis of Katherine’s story was excellent. Challenges, hardship, and loss find everyone, In which direction you take the next step is the critical decision. There is a plan for each of us that is more beautiful than we could plan for ourselves.

    • YES! YES! YES! The direction you take after facing a challenge, hardship, or loss IS a critical decision. I couldn’t agree more that the plan God has for each of us is more beautiful than we could plan for ourselves!

  • What a story of inspiration. Certainly is convicting at this unique time that God is always there and that we should “lean not on our own understanding”–He has the perfect plan for each life. Thank you for sharing this amazing young woman’s story in a beautiful review. I think this book will be a blessing and encouragement for so many.

    • I believe the release of this powerful book is part of God’s beautiful plan at exactly this time in history. Many are suffering with the illness or financial struggles or job loss, and those suffering will find such hope and encouragement in Jay and Katherine’s book. God DOES have the perfect plan for each of our lives!

  • Someone once told me to “lay down your dreams for His vision”. Jay’s words on failure resonate with me as my adult life is not unfolding as my 8-year-old self believed it would. Katherine’s and Jay’s decision to trust God through this adversity is a testimony of obedience, and obedience is a manifestation of unconditional trust. I am thankful for the love this couple has for each other and for the Lord.

    • If I may offer encouragement, Bridget, I would agree with Jay’s words on our adult lives not unfolding exactly like the dreams of our younger selves. But I can testify that the life I’m living after several tough challenges is far better than my younger self could have ever dared to dream. Trust God to reveal His plan for your life and eagerly run toward it.

  • Such a great reminder that God always has a plan, even through suffering. Katherine is an amazing witness and inspiration!

    • Yes! Even though it’s so hard, trusting His plan allows His light to shine through us during the dark days.

  • Melony, what a wonderful synopsis of her book(s) and it has encouraged me to get a copy to read! Of late, much of my study in God’s word has been centered around suffering. I could not agree more with what Katherine and her husband have shared through their journey. They have been an example to us all on how the power and goodness of God helps us to overcome trials …and to not just survive the trials, but for those trials to redefine us to then help us make an impact for the kingdom of God. To God be the glory.!

    • Thank you, Holle! Studying suffering is a bold move on your part! YES! I agree with “if we allow the trials to refine us, it sets us up to have a huge impact on the kingdom of God.”

  • Katherine and Jay’s story is one of great faith and love in the midst of suffering. It reminds me of Mark 5:34, “your faith has saved you.” Their story illustrates how God can transform our situations and our hearts when we trust Him. Their book will indeed inspire many to press on in the midst of pain. Thank you Melony for your wonderful review and introduction to this remarkable couple. Your ministry is such a blessing to many!

    • Faith and love in the midst of great suffering . . . Such gifts during the hardest times. And yes, God does transform our hearts when we trust Him! Beautiful thoughts, sweet friend!

  • Definitely ordering the book soon! It is amazing how God works. It really makes us stop and and look at our own life and see how we can look at our struggles and change our perspective. Great post!!

    • When you read about other people’s struggles and how they fought to overcome, it does make you look at your own life and see what changes you need to make. Perspective is a powerful thing !

  • Thank you, Melony, for this recommendation! I heard the Wolfs speak at Passion, and I was continually amazed by their “overcomer” spirits. Now I need to read their books!

    • Yes, Katherine and Jay are incredible people who have fought hard! I enjoyed hearing them speak at Passion, too!

  • Beautiful review Melony! Mak and I are reading the book now. It is very applicable to many right now during this pandemic and it absolutely applies to our lives with my son Mak’s stroke and brain injury. We were so fortunate to hear Katherine and Jay speak at Passion and meet them too. Mak and Katherine both have the same rare brain disease, a brain avm which caused both of their strokes. She is an absolute inspiration to us and has given Mak great hope as he redefines the second chance at life that God so mercifully gave to him. Thank you for highlighting this book. It truly is a must read for all.

    • Faye, I know you and Mak can relate to Katherine’s story. I’ve loved seeing all of Mak’s progress on his videos. He has worked so hard!

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Believed in the Possibilities

Believed in the Possibilities

Kesi, age 4, on the set of Romper Room

“I believed in the possibilities of healing despite what the doctors said. I held on to hope,” Kesi* shared.

Kesi’s diagnosis at age twenty-eight threatened to derail her childhood dreams of

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  • Kesi, Thank you for sharing your inspiring story. You have overcome some incredible obstacles. God is faithful! God Bless You!

  • Your story Is so beautiful! You are truly an overcomer! Praying for you and for complete healing!

  • What an amazingly strong and inspirational woman! Thank you for sharing your story! What a blessing you are. I know you miss singing so much and how painful that is to not be able to share that gifting in the same way as you used to. I’m thankful for you and how you took this heartbreaking turn of events, readjusted and are thriving. God bless you!

  • Such an inspirational story! Thank you for sharing, Kesi!

  • How proud I am of your amazing strength, courage and endurance. No weapon formed against you shall prosper..Amen!!! Won’t he do it..As your older cousin I admire your perseverance, drive and fearless demeanor. God’s plan is the truth and the way…always believe it…I know you love to sing and dance. He has allowed you to sing for us and yesss!!! we were blessed to hear your beautiful voice. Dancing cousin we do every chance we get (especially our celebratory family who look for a reason to dance) and you being able to speak!!! but “GOD” you are speaking!!! I say all this to say you are blessed, truly a blessing, inspirational, an overcomer, an over achiever, a good person and GOD’s plan he has for your path is undeniably “Victorious”. I love you and so grateful to be linked to your vine.
    Keep speaking your truth and journey because we all need to hear the words of encouragement to get through any struggle that one may be facing!!!

  • What an inspiring person. She could have given up on everything. So proud of a very determined person.

  • Thank you everyone for all the encouragement and kinda words. Reading the comments made me cry, but it’s happy tears. It’s the happiness of knowing I have made it through a struggle and have the support and encouragement of people that I know and love as well as those I have never met. My heart is overwhelmed! Thank you!

  • Wow!!
    Kesi, I’m honored to call you a co-worker, a colleague, and most importantly – a friend! I knew you had grit and determination, but I never knew your story to this extent. Thank you for sharing and inspiring others – including me!

  • Joy after pain

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Overflow with Hope

Overflow with Hope

Just like most newlyweds, Kimberly* and Greg dreamed of a family. About the time they decided to start trying, Kimberly noticed she was spotting between periods. Her gynecologist suspected it was an infection and asked her to wait three months

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  • When we are able to look back and see God’s plan-and acknowledge that it’s His plan-we can see how He blesses us. So many things in this story point to Him. Amazing and beautiful.

    • Yes!!! It truly is amazing to be able to look back and see God’s Hands in our lives!!!!

  • Thank you for sharing your story Kimberly. So much of your story seems familiar, in regards to the cancer, and having a choice taken away. We may not always see the rationale in God’s plan for us. I have come to realize that His path for me may not have been one my human brain would have chosen, but He has lead me to great gifts of happiness nonetheless.

    • Amen sister! I know your story is an amazing one! “Great gifts of happiness”-Love that!!!

  • Kimberly, I’m impressed with your faith and zest for life; your family is special and give you reason for maintaining that hope. I enjoyed all your sweet pictures. Thank you for sharing, Kimberly and Melony!

  • What a happy ending to this story. Kimberly has been cancer free for many years. She was able to fulfill her life with two daughters. May God continue to richly bless her with good health and a happy fulfilled life.

  • I love you friend! Thank you for boldly sharing your story of faith and healing. You have been such a great sisterly presence in my life and I am so grateful for you! ?

  • It was a JOY reading your story! Your journey of faith, hope and courage is inspiring!

    • Thank you Susan. I feel so blessed to have so many testimonies of God’s Grace in my life!! ?

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2 Responses to Alzheimer’s and Brain Awareness Month

  • My best friend has Alzheimer’s. She was diagnosed about two years ago. She went very fast and is in a deep depression. I miss her so badly. I plan to go visit her on that day. She is only 70 years old and her mother also got it at the same age.

    • I’m so sorry she went downhill fast. I love hearing you’re going to visit her on The Longest Day! Social interactions are so very important to those fighting Alzheimer’s disease.

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